T Talking dirty to your lover is one of the quickest and easiest ways to have great sex. Sex in general is usually pretty fantastic after all you’re human and sex feels great! If you add a little or a lot of dirty talk before sex it will be even more exciting and intense.
This type of dirty talk isn’t the kind you would want someone to overhear. If you’re the shy type then this may not be for you either.
Using descriptive sexy words and giving detailed instructions of what you want to do to your lover and what you want him to do to you will build up the excitement quickly. So be careful you don’t overdo it.
Try talking dirty before sex without touching each other. It’s even better if you can do it in the bed with all the clothes off. Its fun to see how long you can last before you completely lose yourself to the excitement and one of you are begging for it.
Start by telling your lover what you want him to do to your toes and work your way up the body. Take turns for each of the body parts. You’d be amazed at how talking about sucking on someone’s toes can be a turn on. Partially because the excitement will build the closer you get to the more sexually parts of the body.
If you both have a good sense of self control you can make a few pit stops on your way up the body, just not at the “good” spots but close. For example as your lover is telling you what he would like to do to your thigh you could show him what you want to do to his. All you have to do is gently stroke the inside of his thigh keeping your hand just out of reach of what you really want to start stroking. Remember to keep talking dirty don’t allow yourself to get caught up in the touching.
When you reach the lips you can stop talking and start making love. By this point talking dirty before sex will have served its purpose.